“Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord” proclaims the psalmist (Psalm 130:1). In so doing, the psalmist gives voice to a heartfelt plea emanating from the dark abyss of human suffering, pain, and despair. Sadly, it’s a forlorn cry that many of us know all too well; life experiences that make us feel helpless, alone, and frightened.
• The loss of a job
• The nagging sting of failure, of not being good enough.
• Living with the consequences of bad choices.
• Silently struggling with depression, anxiety, and other afflictions.
• Mourning the end of a relationship we hoped would last a lifetime..
• Grieving the deaths of the people we love.
• Struggling with a chronic disease or debilitating illness.
• Worrying about loved ones battling cancer.
• Living with the fallout brought about by addiction or alcoholism.
• Surviving physical, emotional, or sexual abuse.
“Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord.”
The plea for divine help calls to mind images of mending torn garments. Kind of like the way I try to mend the rip in my blue jeans. Or, like the way I find myself trying to repair tears in my dog’s chew toy after it has been torn apart after excessive use. Interestingly, the language of fixing suggests that the evidence of the problem will disappear and the problem will go away. But mending is different than fixing, isn’t it? Mending preserves the item, tattered and torn though it may be. One might say that mending by its very nature involves an orientation of hope. Instead of discarding that which is broken, mending seeks to save that which has been torn so that it may be used once again for the purpose for which it was made.
The reality of mending is, I believe, at the heart of the human condition so eloquently expressed in the psalmist’s confession: “If you O Lord, should mark iniquities, Lord, who could stand? But there is forgiveness with you…I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in the Lord’s word I hope…” (Psalm 130:3-5)
Notice how the psalmist cries out with a hope that trusts that God will both hear and respond.
It’s a trust rooted firmly in the promise that God is gracious and merciful. It’s a trust grounded in the reality of the One who died on a cross of shame and descended to the dead always meets us in the midst of our own personal hells. It’s a trust rooted in the promise that Emmanuel, God is with us, always redeems, restores, and renews.
The evidence of sin and brokenness in our world is plain for all to see. Anyone who follows the news knows this all too well. Yet, when we look at things through the eyes of a faith grounded in hope we begin to notice the many and varied ways that Jesus has a knack for always showing up when the darkness of the world threatens to overwhelm us.
It’s a reality that Bishop April Ulrig Larson brought home to me in a very powerful and personal way. Bishop Larson, the first woman elected bishop in the ELCA, was invited to be the commencement speaker at our Wartburg Seminary graduation ceremony. The graduating students asked Bishop Larson to speak to us not only because of her pioneering leadership role within the church, but also in light of the knowledge of her own experience with loss, grief, and the transformative power of faith.
It’s hard not to attend Wartburg without hearing about Ben Larson. Like his mom, Ben felt a call to ministry. Ben was a gifted musician and song writer. He was blessed with many gifts for ministry. And like all Wartburg Seminary students, Ben had the opportunity to participate in an international cross-cultural January Term. So in 2010 Ben and his wife Renee travelled to Haiti with two other Wartburg students. A short time after they arrived, a devastating earthquake struck; killing Ben and more than 300,000 other people.
“Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord.”
Speaking of her own experience in the abyss of grief, Bishop Ulrig-Larson shared with us that in even in the midst of the profound darkness and despair that followed her son’s tragic death, she felt Christ’s presence. And because Christ was with her, she noted that she knew that in time, she would make it through the ordeal. “I knew that it would be different,” she declared. “Different, not necessarily better.”
You see, mending doesn’t say, “This never happened.” Mending does not rush us through the grieving process. It doesn’t say “Get over it” as we, each of us at our own pace, meander our way through the valley of grief and loss. Instead of glossing over our experiences, mending bears witness to the loss. Mending acknowledges the reality of pain, suffering, and grief. Mending is a visible reminder that “something or someone was broken here, but with God’s grace it will rise to new life.”
And that is why when I stand before the cross as a beggar in need of the mending that only God can give, I do so trusting that Jesus meets me in the midst of whatever it is I am going through. For the One who descended to the dead repeatedly descends into the darkness of our personal torment, despair, and loss. The crucified and risen One shares in our suffering and pain. And, when we’re ready, Jesus accompanies us toward the light of God’s redemption.
“Out of the depths we cry to you, O Lord…
I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in the Lord’s word I hope…
For with the Lord there is steadfast love,
and with the Lord is great power to redeem.” ~ Psalm 130:1, 5, 7